Loving Someone with Dementia
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Q. Valentine’s Day has always been special for my husband, Charlie, and I. It’s our wedding anniversary and we used to go all out every year celebrating it. Charlie wasn’t much of a romantic until he met me. He’s learned over the years that I love chocolate, flowers, and sappy Hallmark cards. One year, on our 25th anniversary, he even surprised me with a trip to Paris! Charlie has certainly become
quite the romantic during the 40 years we have been married!
A few years ago, Charlie was diagnosed with dementia and he is progressively getting worse. Sometimes I feel like taking care of Charlie is similar to when my toddler grandchildren come over. I am concerned what it will be like when he no longer recognizes me or our children or grandchildren. I hope I don’t sound cruel, but I sometimes have to remind myself that he is my beloved husband, the one I
built my life with, and not a burden. Do you have any tips to keep the love alive when so much of who my husband was has gone away?
Critter Corner: In Memory of BeBe, Beloved Pet and Critter Corner Contributor
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Our sweet BeBe crossed the Rainbow Bridge on Tuesday, February 11, where he will rest in peace and light and love until we are reunited. He was twenty-one years old and he filled our lives and hearts with so much love during his 9 precious years with us here on earth. Please join Evan and Jeannie, the staff at the Farr Law Firm, and the Critter Corner staff in remembering BeBe.
Critter Corner: Should a Loved One with a Dementia Diagnosis Have a Pet?
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My grandmother Ruth has a small black mixed-breed pup named Angus. She is very fond of Angus and takes him everywhere. Ruth was diagnosed with dementia a couple of years ago. She still takes good care of Angus, but what happens when it becomes more severe and she forgets to walk him or feed him? We wouldn't dream of taking Angus away. She is so attached to that pup and he makes her happy and calm.
What do you suggest we do?
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